Wednesday, January 5, 2011
Godspeed Dad,
We will all miss you so much. You were an amazing man, Husband, Father and Grandfather and friend. You always did for everyone in your life, Taking Mom to Hawaii multiple times as well as Bermuda, You two so enjoyed your boats from the little 14 ft Misty Lady that we all learned to sail on to the Bristol, the pride and joy of the family. You were a shining example of a solid work ethic, and always doing something,usually for others from pinstriping the kids cars who would show up in the driveway to have their cars customized and in the process talk to them about responsibilty to helping anyone just starting out in business by lettering signs or vehicles, we all know you never made any money at that. You lettered all the megaphones every year for the Burlington Cheerleaders complete with glitter. You recorded all the senior plays every year so records could be made for the kids. Halloween became a major project with the talking tree and owl, the ghosts running out to the end of the driveway on fishing line, it took all of us to run the sound system and the lines.
You taught us to rive a car when all the other kids were just taking the driving test, no, not us, we had to learn 3 on the tree, 4 on the floor and automatics.You made us drive the big trucks too, twin stick etc. We had to learn how to change a tire, check fluids and belts. The difference between manual and power brakes. How to load and fire a pistol and rifle, your theory was if we were physically able, we should have the knowledge. You taught us independence and responsibilty.
And your art, your paintings hang all over the world and in many peoples homes. The painting you did for me, you had to put my name on before the paintings was started so no one would ask for it. How perceptive, it looks so much like the farm Jim and I bought many years later and now live on. It was you that taught me to see the many colors in the leaves on the trees and the beauty of the world around us.
Your love of kids and animals, how proud you were of your grandchildren and how much they love you back a hundredfold.
This past year and half since Mom left you were so lonely and missing her and your health declining losing your independence no matter how hard for you you maintained your dignity.
I want to thank Eric and Chris for the special care they took of you, Steven for stopping by with your Dunkin Donuts coffee, from the 'office' and Patrick for making sure every time he was home on leave, he made time for you.
I know you were met at Heavan's Gate by Ma and Gicke, Mom and your many many friends passed before you and that you are at peace.
I Love you.
